Embrace the ‘Enemy’

Whoever you dislike the most is the person you may need to embrace in order to reach the next level of success.

This view might’nt be widely accepted but there’s an old age adage that says that what people do is a reflection of them and not you.

The wrongdoings (or no-doings) of our shadow person may be reflective of the parts of ourselves  that we don’t like the most.

That was a double whammy or a double antendre.

Above, im referring to an enemy’s actions representing their biases and retributions about their lives and those having nothing to do with you.

I’m also lamenting that the wrongdoings we think we’re apprehending from an enemy is also a reflection of the parts of ourselves that we do not like.

It could be that we’re very much like our enemy and there is some internal (or external) challenge forcing us to disown a part of us. This challenge presents itself as some painful dilemma that requires addressing.

Our enemy may be a very clear manifestation of the parts of ourselves we do not love but need to embrace, to realize our potential.

In order for our prayees,dreams and wishes to come true, embrace that person or part or yourself that you dislike the most .

The clown,  the whore, the poor, the unlucky, the unfaithful, the reject, the failure, the spendthrift, the minority.

Embrace you.

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